No matter the drag queen, leather-wearing 70-year olds, 20-something twinks, or the shirtless bartender, you realize that what ties these people together is the sense that they can be themselves in this space without fear of judgement or violence. While the initial sights are overwhelming, a bit comical, and breathtaking, there’s something more to this experience that touches you: Every person in this bar feels comfortable to be who they are.
It’s a stunning mix of people who vary across age, race, gender identity, sexual orientation, and body type. Let’s not forget the 75-year-old man who just strutted by you wearing a leather newsboy cap, a tight leather vest exposing a bush of gray hair on his chest, and a pair of assless leather chaps, which reveal his deathly pale, but round bum. A few women dot the room, drinking casually and engaging in witty conversation.Young twinks-that group of young men in their earlier 20s who look like they could model for GQ-are bubbly, chit-chatting with each other and making eyes at every single man walking by.Older men with bright gold rings adorning most of their fingers and chain necklaces slowly swaying across their chests.You walk through the doors, a smile spreads across your face, and you tell yourself, “This is going to be an interesting night.” A safe space for us all You shave, shower, brush your teeth, throw together the cutest outfit you can find, and hop in an Uber on your way to this new experience that has your heart beating just a bit faster. There’s this bar downtown you’ve heard about, and you decide to give it a shot. You’re just itching to get out and have a bit of fun, mix it up, and have a few drinks to transition you gracefully into the weekend.